Ralph pls go

Two things or more, haven't decided yet. I was referring to God and the lack of him by calling it an Imaginary Friend.

Also, when I read the "you have sex when you're married to blah blah blah" and that nothing goes wrong, I thought.... "STD.... STI.... KIDS!"

Mozillo wrote:Two things or more, haven't decided yet. I was referring to God and the lack of him by calling it an Imaginary Friend.

I said don't explain!!!!! =

Mozillo wrote:t;]Also, when I read the "you have sex when you're married to blah blah blah" and that nothing goes wrong, I thought.... "STD.... STI.... KIDS!"

Or your penis can get stuck or broken =/

Maybe you'll think differently once you start wanting sex properly Ryan.

Sex can be as meaningful as kissing to some people, like I said, everything isn't so black and white.

And what about marriages based solely on sex? :O

And loveless marriages!

There are so many arguments against your way of thinking it just can't be right

No offence, it's just not how the world works.

That's all fine and dandy Kev. You go through your life "having more fun" in your view, and we'll do it our way. Sounds good?

*hides behind computer applauding Ryan* YOU GO MAN!!!

Really it seems like the idea of having Sex as a means of pleasure is a silly one. That instead it should only be done in the attempt of mixing each persons Gene Pools in the hope of having an offspring that has the better of both pools. Humans being the only ones that do the whole pleasure thing (that comes to mind). Meaning that lets just not have sex at all unless we want children? And EVERYONE knows that the love dies in a relationship once you have children....

Kamatari wrote:That's all fine and dandy Kev. You go through your life "having more fun" in your view, and we'll do it our way. Sounds good?

*hides behind computer applauding Ryan* YOU GO MAN!!!

I do like my way of life yes

And you seem to be misunderstanding me :/

I'm saying what Ryan is saying is fine and dandy.... but only for some people.

People have different opinions, which is clear cause I seem to have a very different one to a lot of you, on this topic in particular it seems.

While some may be all for the no sex before marriage thing, even more will be opposed to that, and with plenty of good reasons on both sides.

I just think there are more arguments for sex before marriage.

But my mind may be fogged by the fact that I'm a slut.

Yeah you are Kev *suggestive look*
But yeah, I think more people, Even Christians, would go for the sex before marriage. Just mostly because it's sex... and a lot of people don't really care that much about religion (in America and England/Europe anyway) a great deal.
I mean, sure there's that whole "Blah blah blah shows the ultimate bond, blah blah blah" thing.... but then you get an STD or something like that, like prego.... or Blue Waffle or it turns out that afterwards you both hate each other or something and BAM divorce....
But then, having sex before makes it less special and will probably eventually make the only thing keeping a relationship together is the possibility of sex. IN MY OPINION, once you get kids (which I guess extremists would say is the ONLY time for Sex) you never have it again.... well, you know... once in a blue moon.... So if you wait till after you get married then have a kid... well you'll have only had like sex 3 or 4 times in yo' life.... until the kid is 18 and gone from the home.... just think about that.....
Mmmm, that sounded quite stupid.... OH WELL! It made more sex sense in my head.

For a lot of people who get married they don't have kids until like 5 years through their marriage. By the way, most of my beliefs are based on the Catholic christian, which is close to the Christian religion. I can't really explain why you shouldn't have sex before marriage very well. You need to ask a priest or research it to get all of what I'm trying to say.

Ryan, WHY are you asking 2 of the laziest people to look something up? o.O

Chris- it's called a condom... DURR thats why they wouldnt have sex 3 or 4 times.

Kev- yes Kev, you're biased!!!

What I'm saying is why make Sex a big deal? Surely the only need for sex is children, so surely having Sex when not going for a child, EVEN whilst married is a bit frownaponable or something.... seeing as religion doesn't seem to like people enjoying their life....
And I don't want to talk to a Priest... he may touch me inappropriately

Kamatari wrote:Chris- it's called a condom... DURR thats why they wouldnt have sex 3 or 4 times.

Kev- yes Kev, you're biased!!!

Well if we were looking at this from a religious spectrum, condoms are not allowed, and we all know pulling out doesn't work!

And well duh I'm biased

Pretty much everyone is biased on this.

I think religion is a rather silly thing to base relationships off though.

And marriage is even sillier, it's not that I'm against marriage or anything, but some couples that aren't married love each other and are closer than some married couples.

Why stop those couples from having sex.

And before you say you're not stopping them and blah blah blah, I'm just saying.

It's their choice. Not having sex before marriage is a limit we are putting on ourselves, no one else. We don't try to change it for everyone just because we don't believe in it.

You may see it as a waste, but we do not.

Kamatari wrote:It's their choice. Not having sex before marriage is a limit we are putting on ourselves, no one else. We don't try to change it for everyone just because we don't believe in it.

You may see it as a waste, but we do not.

The word "should" that has been used many times in this topic shows that what we're saying is not purely introspective.

And I didn't say it was a waste! >.>

He also acknowledged the fact that it was your choice and such 'n' such and that he personally didn't really see the point.... so......... HOORAY FOR READING EACH OTHERS COMMENTS AND NOT JUST DIVING INTO THE ARGUMENT ONLY READING ABOUT HALF THE RESPONSE!

And then Chris backed me up and I was like "Yay" and smiled

True story

Why are relationships so complicated.

My fingers smell like onions

*sigh* this doesn't matter anymore...

Everything matters! Like matter, matter matters! Without Matter there'd be nothing to matter about.

For some reason I think you got that from Bill Nye....

Who?

Bill Nye the Science Guy.

It's an American show.

It's not shown over here so no he did not get it from that Ryan...

BILL NYE THE SCIENCE GUY!!!!!!! He was the awesomest science guy ever!!!



-Inertia is a property of matter.

My chemistry teacher is pretty cool

Bill Nye is probably the least boring, but he does overdue it sometimes.

I frigging LOVe one of my chemistry Teachers! He's really cool, and really likes me because I know it all and man I love being in his lessons!
Although, one of my Physics teachers EVERYONE has the hots for, all the boys think "Ahhh, Mr Halls, Must not make you think badly of me!" and he's just awesome!

lol... I had an awesome science-ish teacher... He taught AP-Biology, and he was my forensics teacher! He used to throw stuff at us (which made class VERY entertaining), but he respected everyone as long as the people respected him. And he would get down and dirty with his discussions... LOL He did the hand motion for "suck it" quite a bit...

.... the hand motion for "suck it"? From a quick guess I'd say it'd be making the hand into a tube and then in a sort of wanking motion to the mouth whilst using the tongue to make it look like there's an invisible PENIS in hand and mouth....
Or were you thinking about something else?

My teacher, chemistry, is funny and a laugh, but he can also be stern and stuff, so classes don't get out of control. However, two weeks ago he was saying "I know I'm being really Anal" in which he only really realised AFTER the lesson.... but he meant it in the way like Pedantic. Also he just got back from having a baby, so I hear he's really tired, LOL!